Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Surviving neglect from your sports " team".

How to cope with neglect from your sports team.
     Has your " team " made you feel as though you weren't wanted? That you weren't needed? That all you were was someone to order around.
     How do we survive this, here's how.

     Step one. Never go out for a team that doesn't feel like one. Unity on and off the field/court is essential to a winning team. What is more important winning or a team tat you can share happy losses with.

     Step two. If it was after you made the team that it became hostile. Try to ignore the bad feelings. If you can't talk to your coach about it then the best option would be to leave the sport. Even if you love the game there is no point.

     Step three. If the coaches are your main source of hostility. Vent to your friends chances are they can try to understand how you feel.

     Step four. Nothing is more important than how you feel about your team. So
don't let people take advantage of your want to be apart of something bigger than yourself.

     Step five. If you only feel angry around the people you're around. What is the point, however, if you do choose that these are the people you want in your life. Then take a little rubber ball and squeeze it. If that doesn't work throw the ball at the nearest coach/player and pretend it was an accident.

Everything you feel is mental and that will affect you worse in the long run. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.

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